The Purpose  of   HEALING - K.I.S.S.

- as stated 12 years ago - was and is

  to help me and my potential P E E R s 

"to HEAL ourselves into WHOLEness,

and - by extension - all of CREATion!"
Intro to Healing-K.i.s.s. 2001-2013
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I focus my experiencing and awareness on being
"a   pioneer of  Evolution  in  learning  to  feel":
I let my Body vibrate and my Heart 'womb'

pain, shame, fear, boredom, powerlessness,
so feelings can >heal >guide>fulfill
>evolve,
and ~~~ offer ~~~"goldmines"~~~ to us all!!
"I want you to feel everything, every little thing!"

 

 

Overview of and Links to the Pages of My Community: Desert Vision - Rihlah Parting from its realization in the exterior World

 

 

D E S E R T    V I S I O N

A Space for TrainingFeeling: Mobile Hosting Enterprises
2002_11_06; last update: 2003_02_15;
updated on 2008_12_19


Yael Gavish training a participant in the third "Aetgar"

The first format for "FeelingTraining" is called "Aetgar ba-midbar", "Challenge in the Desert".
After the experience of 3 times a full week with young people , age 14-17, we created this prospectus:
A large photo of a stormy sunset over the cliffs of the Ramon-Crater, taken by Efrat Lybrook,
and on the back of the photo the wording:
7 people stay for 7 days in 7 succahs in the Desert and rule their lives by themselves.

 

The seven young people (16-17) of the third "Aetgar"
wrote some wonderful impressions,
of which I made a composition of three
and used it as a flyer

(with an introduction, I'll translate:)



The history of "the Aetgar":

"Succah in the Desert" is a hosting place in the desert and also a vision about settling the Negev.
To the place which has been working already for 4 years - come individuals, not masses.
For when individuals live - each one apart, but still together -
each one is more aware of his/her uniqueness
and therefore also a special togetherness is created.

[In Hebrew all the words: "individuals" - "apart" - "together" - "special" -"togetherness" have the same root.

"Aetgar ba-Midbar" - challenge in the desert - started in summer 1994.
In three "aetgars" participated young people, mostly from Israel, from Mitzpe-Ramon to Haifa.
Many of the graduates - who since then came back to the Succah 2 or 3 times - had experiences
like those expressed by Shirlie Ben-Maeshi from Mitzpe-Ramon and Natan Meged from Tel-Aviv .


Natan Meged later
worked as a volunteer
in the Succah [here
he is seen in the
kitchen, 16.12.95].
Natan is the grandson
of a writer & journalist,
Aharon Meged, who
was the only one
among the many
who interviewed me
and wrote about
my "Partnership"
work in the seventies,
by whom I felt understood.

 

Tom Recht wrote in English, since "most of the week was going on in English",
because of Philip from England.

 

Moshe Klein, a great educator, a genius in mathematics and one of my dearest potential partners,
was the only one, who joined me in conceptualizing the idea of the "aetgar", also in 1994.


Following Gadi's great new proposal, that he would be Avi's partner
by connecting it to his and Efrat's community work in Mitzpe-Ramon,
I did - again ! - the utterly futile thing :
I linked his idea to my own understanding of
Succah in the Desert as a "TRAINING SPACE" for people who want to grow,
mainly for people who want to do "FEEL-TRAINING", like others do baseball training.





A spontaneous FeelingTraining
with Gadi's and Efrat's daughter Maya, then age 7
If I remember correctly:
The fourth "Aetgar", accompanied by Yael Gavish,
or maybe a reunion of graduates of the first 3 aetgars,

called "Khoter",
[=rod - from the stem of Jesse, Isaiah11,1]
were trampling a path from the Succah towards the Midbaron.
There it happened, that Maya got very upset and stayed behind.
I went back to support her, while the group waited.

 

 

 

 


Rachel

 

 

Updated on December 19, 2008:
I got an e-mail from Margret Daehndl,
once my pupil and friend:
she now intends to lead women
into and in the Sinai Desert
for similar purposes as described
in my - never realized - programs
of Training Dreamers
(see the last one , in 2004...)

 

What follows is probably the last and most poignant prospectus [1999?]
among so many I had prepared in all those 14 years of my wandering life
about "Training in Feeling":


TRAININGinFEELING

Re-Creation for the Soul

in the Desert and on the Desert-Sea

How can distressing emotions be transformed
into fruitful feelings?
How can opposition to our interest be transformed
into partnership?
How can we move from self-victimization

["they do this to me"," they don't give me"]
to self-determination?

Just as someone trains in basket ball
day after day,
thus I have to train in self-determination
day after day.
Just as in the desert and the desert sea
there is a hidden treasure
(Space, Purity and Silence or SPS),
which has to be un-folded, e-volved,
thus in the feeling, be it pain or rage,
be it fear or shame,
there is hidden a treasure
which needs to be un-folded, e-volved.

 

Four optimal training conditions:
[translation not completed]

 


The two trainers: Uri Goldin and Yael Gavish (see more of them)

 

 

2012-Arad
For more than 7 years the only surviving model of my pyramidal tent was stored - folded- on my veranda.
Now starchild Boris asked for it, so as to be able to retreat into his own space, when he felt the need for it.
Ever since he has known me, he has also known the verse in Ecclesiastes:
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing
(see the song, which includes metaphors for this law).

When Immanuel with Mika fetched me from Micha's family on Shabbat-morning, May 19, 2012
and drove me back to Arad [see a sculpture about Mika inserted in Ki.s.s.-log May 19],
he first informed himself - with my landlord's help - about my computerized irrigation system,

Then I asked him to walk with me 5 minutes to the place, which I came to call "Pni-el",
the house, which Daniel has rented for a year, and which includes the one room below,
which first Dafna and later also Boris rented from him.
I wanted to see, if and how Boris managed with the tent. I felt quite nostalgic....
see a picture [with two other starchildren) of the time when I still lived in this tent myself

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When we arrived,
the tent was thrown to the ground.

"The wind..."
Boris excused himself.
So the three of us together
erected the inner and the outer tent.
The winter-plastic tent in between
Boris had already removed.



Dafna and Boris in their one room, with Mika , who gladly accepted Dafna's herbal tea, a tea which she usually detests.

June 14, 2012
It seems, that Boris wants to move again,
first to Russia for a month
- he immigrated from there to Israel at the age of three,
then - the entire world is open to him, and my tent will return to me.